A reporter asked an elderly couple, “How did you manage to stay together for 65 years?” The woman’s reply was amazing. She said, “We were born in a time when if something was broken, we would fix it. Not just throw it away.” From what the woman said,that made me realise most people's on earth misued the word " I LOVE U"
So, if you’re confused then stop saying, “I love you.” Don’t even fix your lips to make the sound because you are playing with someone heart.
There is a difference between love and possession
Possession is actually the opposite of Love
Love:I want you to be happy
Possession: I want you to make me happy
Love has an alias too. It goes by understanding and commitment.
Love does not keep score but remembers we are on the same team. Possession hardens the heart; Love softens it. Possession picks a flower out of the ground, but Love waters it. Possession wants to hide; Love is vulnerable and exposed. Possession sees the body; Love sees the soul.
Love trusts the process. Possession controls the direction. Possession wants to win the argument. Love desires to win connection. Possession is filled with darkness; Love, with sunlight. Possession says,” who’s right?” Love says, “what’s right.”
Love is not sweaty palms or a pounding heart. No, it’s more of a calm explosion. Possession destroys those who touch it. Love heals all who hold it. Possession is counterfeit. Love is the only truth. Possession fades away; Love is forever because it is absolute.
But look, nothing is perfect. Even love needs to be fed. A daily dose of forgiveness, understanding, not just those empty words, sad. So, are you willing to persevere through tough times? And choose love every single day? And you willing to fix things that are broken? And not just throw them away? If you said yes, I promise your love will last a lifetime and everyday will feel brand new.
Please respect the word, “Love”. And say it only to those you truly do because you are playing with someone heart. What people call love today.isn't love at all.its's possesion. And not to be a cynic but I feel most people in our generation just don’t know the difference between them.

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